Have you looked at the civilian route? If not, check that out. If you are dead set on the mil thing, I would do what CD47 says, and check the Army. Also, check the Navy and USMC for any options, they may have different criteria. Or, think about going into the guard, working your way into a good flying unit, then with thier help try to get a pilot slot. Maybe it is worth a shot. Definitely don't give up! Good luck.