Complete outsider looking in here. I took the time to read the whole document, minus the names. I've grown tired of the endless arguing and personal jibes, not to mention the constant thread hijacking by both sides of this fight. I don't think I've ever seen anyone post the link to the judgement before, so thanks. It makes fascinating reading and paints a clear picture of what was clearly a very difficult decision. I know I'm not going to change anyone's mind and I don't think it's my place to judge people so deeply involved in a tough situation or to take sides in a fight I have no place in. The only point I would make is that both sides would be a hell of a lot better off if you could step back, put yourself in the other guy's shoes and really try and understand his view. Best of luck all.
Thanks again for the education.