I'm not in your situation because of my age, 25 yrs old, but there is one thing that has always stuck in my head. I love the movie Cool Runnings about the Jamaican Bobsled team and the '88 olympics. Jr. told Yuel Brenner in the sleezy hotel that if he wants it bad enough, he'll get it. That's so true, that if you want something bad enough you'll get it because you'll find a way no matter what and how long! But for some people, time is a bit of an issue. That's how I've gotten through my training. remembering that line and asking my self: "how bad do I want this?" when I thought of quiting. I just completed my commercial, and am working on my instrument rating, which I'm almost done with. Good luck!