Here’s the difference between military schools and civilians ones. You wouldn’t get to five busts before getting a ticket home. If you had those personal problems, STOP training. That might well have been offered, certainly has at some military programs, but you should never have allowed it to progress that far and the school shouldn’t have, either.
Those failures won’t go away in the PRIA world. First, figure out why you failed; that means being real hard on yourself. Then, you’ll need years of professional flying, of any sort that will hire you, to maybe reach a regional or 135 job.
GF