Originally Posted by
TiredSoul
Here’s my best advice that I just pulled outta my backside: focus on the journey and not at the goal.
Work your way up, only concentrate on achieving that next step, once there start working on the next one.
Be the best that you can be.
Take it from there.
From your explanation it doesn’t sound like there’s anything structural.
But you need distance and time between you and those fails.
Slightly different take on this my friend...
You'll get further in life if you have goals and focus on them. I've tried it both ways, with pretty consistent results.
You should maintain a work/life balance with respect to your goals, particularly long-term goals, otherwise you might miss out on too much life along the way.
But by all means enjoy the journey, just check your heading and power setting on a regular basis.