If I had to do it over again, I would of put 100% of my effort to find a Air National Guard unit to pay for your flight training. Becoming an airline pilot takes many sacrifice especially these days. Dont drink the cool aid from many of these fantasy flight schools. To do so with a family & kids you must take extreme caution!! I seen many broken marriages because of it. I am currently flying an MD80 but it took me 15 yrs to get there. Oh, yeah I'm still under paid. Good luck!