You were spoiled just like me. I did most of my primary training at a local flying club pt 61. It was laid back and like you said the CFI's would help you out with no problem. But thats what seperates pt 141. Its more structured and theyHAVE to follow a standard FAA curriculum. They have no choice. The FAA inspects them periodically to make sure they are compling. The FAA isnt as tough on pt 61 programs. I went to a 141 school for advanced lisence and it ws a cultural shock (especially to my wallet) but all in all I am glad I did it. I figure if I am going to work in a professional aviation environment , I might as well tran in one to get used to it