We also received a fine for leaving my shoes outside of our door. This was, evidently, in the HOA rules and regulation. After I found out this member of the board yelled at my wife, it was all I could do to not give this guy an extra breathing hole.
Thanks Rick for the advice, we have a few months left on the lease (which after then we'll move)... so if it gets any worse we will get a lawyer involved. I'm not sure if a restraining order is a prudent thing to do, but if this guy continues to follow my wife around - I see no other way.