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[email protected] and I'll try my best to answer your questions. I was in the same boat growing up, with parents who didn't know or want to know anything about me going flying. They came round though and ended up my biggest supporeters. You require some post secondary for Air NZ, but not a degree; that said there are a couple pilots who have been hired recently with no post secondary. I had two years and lots of big turbine command, and they hired me. It's an excellent company to work for and a great lifestyle, but it is alot of work getting there. Too much to explain here so send me an email and I'll fill you in better. My wife went to Massey and now flies the 744 for Air NZ by the way, so that program does help you along.
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