Divorce Lawyer Northside Atlanta
01-06-2021, 06:10 AM
#91
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Originally Posted by Pogey Bait
Dude you got it all wrong. You definitely want to speak to that one, see what she’s up to? Coffee, lunch, dinner, whatever else? But you got one thing right......NEVER GET MARRIED. Marriage is a legal sole voiding doctrine, designed by the church and now government to somehow terrify you enough to remain with that same person till you don’t give a crap anymore because you are too damn old now to give a s.~#%. A traditional marriage goes against all our genetically hard wired instincts on both sides of the wedding aisle. With that said...when you find a good one, keep her. Just remember to keep the church and Uncle Sam out of your relationship.
01-06-2021, 06:56 AM
#92
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Originally Posted by 123494
Marriage terrifies me. I’m a pretty paranoid person, so I’m always thinking a person who would want to date me is out to get me for some reason. Not sure if that’s healthy, but reading through what some of you guys have been through would keep me up at night.
On my last trip, I was on the Starbucks line and looked up to see a girl looking right at me. I put my head right back to so fast and walked away. I could tell she was startled, even through the mask.
On my last trip, I was on the Starbucks line and looked up to see a girl looking right at me. I put my head right back to so fast and walked away. I could tell she was startled, even through the mask.
Marriage is ultimately just a civil contract. You want to have input on the writing of the contract, or just trust that your state government has your best interests at heart?
Keeps everyone honest right from the start. Takes guts though. I didn't do it, and I'm 90% certain she would have been open to it.
"Marriage in haste, repent at leisure".
01-06-2021, 12:56 PM
#93
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Originally Posted by ppping
She is already using the kids as pawns. I am trying to spend as much time with them as possible and she is not being easy about it.
Lifestyle is going to be a big change. House, vacations and budget etc. I am pretty sure by perusing divorce everything was going to stay the exact same for her just with me gone.
Lifestyle is going to be a big change. House, vacations and budget etc. I am pretty sure by perusing divorce everything was going to stay the exact same for her just with me gone.
Let's just say that I am also currently and greatly feeling you pain and situation.
Never forget that it will all be lies and deceit in the effort to work towards her goals. The fact she is using the kids as pawns already shows it.
Trust nothing.
Don't be afraid to call the CP office to get days dropped if you need. They have been great for me so far.
I wish I could be like others here and speak to the good days to come, but that seems nigh to impossible to me right now, so I have no sunshine to blow, sorry.
01-06-2021, 01:44 PM
#94
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Originally Posted by APCLurker
Let's just say that I am also currently and greatly feeling you pain and situation.
Never forget that it will all be lies and deceit in the effort to work towards her goals. The fact she is using the kids as pawns already shows it.
Trust nothing.
Don't be afraid to call the CP office to get days dropped if you need. They have been great for me so far.
I wish I could be like others here and speak to the good days to come, but that seems nigh to impossible to me right now, so I have no sunshine to blow, sorry.
Never forget that it will all be lies and deceit in the effort to work towards her goals. The fact she is using the kids as pawns already shows it.
Trust nothing.
Don't be afraid to call the CP office to get days dropped if you need. They have been great for me so far.
I wish I could be like others here and speak to the good days to come, but that seems nigh to impossible to me right now, so I have no sunshine to blow, sorry.
i know it’s going to get better in time. It can’t be any worse than the past. Lots of buddies have come out of the woodwork and this forum has been great.
So far zoom has been great for working with lawyers and it kills time on Cali layovers! I am sure I will have to use the CPO when mediation/court necessitates it.
It’s going to get better.
Last edited by ppping; 01-06-2021 at 01:49 PM. Reason: .
01-06-2021, 01:50 PM
#95
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Originally Posted by DontGetHooked
You don't truly know someone until you divorce them.
Last edited by ppping; 01-06-2021 at 02:11 PM.
01-06-2021, 03:47 PM
#96
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Originally Posted by 123494
Marriage terrifies me. I’m a pretty paranoid person, so I’m always thinking a person who would want to date me is out to get me for some reason. Not sure if that’s healthy, but reading through what some of you guys have been through would keep me up at night.
On my last trip, I was on the Starbucks line and looked up to see a girl looking right at me. I put my head right back to so fast and walked away. I could tell she was startled, even through the mask.
On my last trip, I was on the Starbucks line and looked up to see a girl looking right at me. I put my head right back to so fast and walked away. I could tell she was startled, even through the mask.
Never lose that terror of marriage. Never. Get. Married.
Especially considering what you earn and will eventually earn in this job. You will be a wallet. HALF. You are right to be paranoid about it.
I look back now and see what I was blind to. I should have learned from watching a relative in a couple of circumstances/situations.
Last edited by APCLurker; 01-06-2021 at 04:07 PM.
01-06-2021, 04:01 PM
#97
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Originally Posted by ppping
It completely blows. By being forced to step back I have realized how unhappy I was in the marriage. We tried and tried but it just didn’t work for anybody. The future will be better but the now sucks, it’s draining and it’s about to get really freaking expensive (some lawyers are up to $600 an hour nevermind the splitting of assets) It’s only money and it’s sad the kids are going to have to witness it and their world will change. It already has.
i know it’s going to get better in time. It can’t be any worse than the past. Lots of buddies have come out of the woodwork and this forum has been great.
So far zoom has been great for working with lawyers and it kills time on Cali layovers! I am sure I will have to use the CPO when mediation/court necessitates it.
It’s going to get better.
i know it’s going to get better in time. It can’t be any worse than the past. Lots of buddies have come out of the woodwork and this forum has been great.
So far zoom has been great for working with lawyers and it kills time on Cali layovers! I am sure I will have to use the CPO when mediation/court necessitates it.
It’s going to get better.
You said she is already using the kids as pawns. It can get worse.
And yes, it will get expensive.
Regarding the CP office: not only for court dates/mediations/etc., but be sure to consider if you should even be there on a given day given the emotional toll and "suck."
01-06-2021, 05:06 PM
#98
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Originally Posted by ppping
It completely blows. By being forced to step back I have realized how unhappy I was in the marriage. We tried and tried but it just didn’t work for anybody. The future will be better but the now sucks, it’s draining and it’s about to get really freaking expensive (some lawyers are up to $600 an hour nevermind the splitting of assets) It’s only money and it’s sad the kids are going to have to witness it and their world will change. It already has.
i know it’s going to get better in time. It can’t be any worse than the past. Lots of buddies have come out of the woodwork and this forum has been great.
So far zoom has been great for working with lawyers and it kills time on Cali layovers! I am sure I will have to use the CPO when mediation/court necessitates it.
It’s going to get better.
i know it’s going to get better in time. It can’t be any worse than the past. Lots of buddies have come out of the woodwork and this forum has been great.
So far zoom has been great for working with lawyers and it kills time on Cali layovers! I am sure I will have to use the CPO when mediation/court necessitates it.
It’s going to get better.
Good luck..and you have lots of bubbas that have been there before you..dont hesitate to reach out.
CG
01-06-2021, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by CGfalconHerc
Sorry you have to go thru this. My Ex divorced me after 24 yrs..which were all good until the last 2. If you realize the marriage is over..the only winning move is not to play. I recommend mediation..and support her and the kids. In the end..it will be cheaper than paying $100k to a lawyer and have your kids turned against you. Let her go..pay the price..and be there for the kids. Hopefully..when they're adults..they'll realize your sacrifice for their benefit.
Good luck..and you have lots of bubbas that have been there before you..dont hesitate to reach out.
CG
Good luck..and you have lots of bubbas that have been there before you..dont hesitate to reach out.
CG
I won’t hesitate and thank you.
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