Herc, back about 20 years ago, I DID know what I was getting into. Back when regional jobs were hard to get, and you HAD to flight instruct to move on to the next level. I DID understand what the salaries were, and the qol that the majors offered. The salaries were high including generous pensions, and big fat 401k building capabilities. There were no pilot mills yet. There was only Embry Riddle, and a few others. Back then, I would have died knowing i'd be able to fly a Shorts 360 someday. Nowadays, there are numerous CRJ captains in their 20's who complain about everything under the sun. There WAS a much better outlook than their is now. Having said that, and I'll say it again, I would never turn anyone away from this profession. There is a love that only a pilot can know for aviation and flying. That can't be taken away from the young folks, or the older career changers.
Heck, even Sky himself said he's always thinking of ways to get back into flying everyday. I am too. (even though i'm kinda still in it being a sim/ground instructor). And Sky, my man, you should find a way to at least fly part time. Some of the folks on here are correct. It ain't THAT bad in aviation. Although i'm seeking other opportunities right now such as finishing my degree, and looking to get into some kind of small business to own, I'm keeping my options open if the right flying opportunity comes along. SkyHigh, I think you ought to keep your flying options open too. It might help you have some more peace. Maybe when your beautiful kids get older? Maybe sooner than that. USMC, and the others, i'm excited for you, and wish you success.