A key cultural difference between AD and the guard (at least AF), is that a guard guy is there because he wants to be. They signed up specifically for that unit, that base, and that airframe. And for they majority, they have no commitment to be there, it's by choice.. They build long term relationships with their fellow guardsmen and know each other for years.
The majority of active duty pilots, however, are locked into a commitment they can't get out of, are randomly put wherever around the world, a lot of times in airframes or even god forbid, staff jobs, that they don't get to choose (can anyone say UAV's at Cannon) with people that are constantly revolving in and out, and are constantly under the threat of careerist leadership that are more concerned about auditioning for the next job than trying to excel and take care of people at their current one.
I guess what I'm saying here is, guard guys -- go easy on us AD types! You're living the aviatior's dream and a lot of us are just waiting for our chance to eject from this death spiral.