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Shrek 04-20-2024 06:10 AM


Originally Posted by TRexman (Post 3793515)
Hello! I'm attending my first Pilot Conference, TPNX, and I'm planning on attending some social events that they have planned. I no longer drink but don't want to miss a good oppurtunity to network. Any advice from people who have attended on how "heavy" the drinking is or would anyone be offended if I turn down a drink.

Just be yourself........ if you aren't confident in who you are it will show through.

rustypigeon 04-20-2024 10:35 AM


Originally Posted by TRexman (Post 3793515)
would anyone be offended if I turn down a drink.

I thought most people outgrew that after graduating high school.

luv757 04-20-2024 10:53 AM


Originally Posted by TRexman (Post 3793515)
Hello! I'm attending my first Pilot Conference, TPNX, and I'm planning on attending some social events that they have planned. I no longer drink but don't want to miss a good oppurtunity to network. Any advice from people who have attended on how "heavy" the drinking is or would anyone be offended if I turn down a drink.

If someone gives you **** for not drinking you should thank them. They saved you a lot of time figuring out they’re an *******.

MtoL 04-23-2024 07:02 AM


Originally Posted by rustypigeon (Post 3794639)
I thought most people outgrew that after graduating high school.

Some people never grow up.

Cleared4appch 04-25-2024 09:13 AM


Originally Posted by rustypigeon (Post 3794639)
I thought most people outgrew that after graduating high school.

Unfortunately this isn’t the case for everyone. Seen this happen many times. Some people just never seem to grow out of that.

Grumble 04-25-2024 02:02 PM


Originally Posted by Cleared4appch (Post 3796160)
Unfortunately this isn’t the case for everyone. Seen this happen many times. Some people just never seem to grow out of that.

I quit drinking a long time ago, only response I’ve ever gotten from others is “I really need to do that.”

For the OP we have a lot of pilots here that don’t. Tell anyone that gives you grief over it to GFY, not like they’re gonna run to HR.

PlaneS 04-26-2024 10:32 AM

Soda water with a lime & you're golden

Cleared4appch 04-26-2024 10:54 PM


Originally Posted by Grumble (Post 3796243)
I quit drinking a long time ago, only response I’ve ever gotten from others is “I really need to do that.”

For the OP we have a lot of pilots here that don’t. Tell anyone that gives you grief over it to GFY, not like they’re gonna run to HR.

I’ve gotten that response a lot from people too. Still there are some who take offense when i tell them I drink “very little” or “not much” or, if I’m around someone who seems to be a borderline alcoholic, I’ll say “not at all” as I do not want to be around them when they’ve downed a few. I drink a little here and there, but not as much as I used to, mainly because I’m trying to avoid gaining weight. But still these reasons bother certain people. I guess they feel insecure about their drinking? I used to care what others thought, but now I could honestly give 2 shxxs less what their opinions are.

golfandflows 04-27-2024 09:52 AM


Originally Posted by Cleared4appch (Post 3796706)
I’ve gotten that response a lot from people too. Still there are some who take offense when i tell them I drink “very little” or “not much” or, if I’m around someone who seems to be a borderline alcoholic, I’ll say “not at all” as I do not want to be around them when they’ve downed a few. I drink a little here and there, but not as much as I used to, mainly because I’m trying to avoid gaining weight. But still these reasons bother certain people. I guess they feel insecure about their drinking? I used to care what others thought, but now I could honestly give 2 shxxs less what their opinions are.

going on 3 pages about something so simple…drink or don’t drink it’s an easy choice. IS OP 23 years old? This screams of that.

TransWorld 04-27-2024 12:49 PM


Originally Posted by golfandflows (Post 3796784)
going on 3 pages about something so simple…drink or don’t drink it’s an easy choice. IS OP 23 years old? This screams of that.

If I am on an antibiotic that says I should not have alcohol, I simply ask for a Diet Coke on the rocks. Smile when someone asks. Change the subject.


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