Bmart,
I have an IFR Certified 152 down in NC and do safety pilot/IFR Sim flights with folks. You can email me, which is my username here at gmail.com, to get an idea of what it would be to fly with me. I think you'd be surprised, even with the plane having to be flown up to your area in order for us to meet.
I've used pilotshareride in the past (note: it was a free site until about a month or so away). I found a local to me guy and a guy from Norfolk that I've flown with; resulting in approx 15 hrs to date (both have been out of town for awhile recently due to work).