It doesn't have to be guys. Really. Perseverance is the key in this business. Almost every pilot you see in an airline cockpit has gone through tough times and disappointment just to get there, and even AFTER they got there. It's a tough business. If you REALLY want to be in this business, just move on and try to get on with other carriers. As has been pointed out, there are quite a few out there.

Don't let the negatives get you down and defeat your goal. Focus on the end game.