Check this out, it's airline oriented but entry-level pilots all start out the same way:
http://www.airlinepilotforums.com/fl...reer-read.html
A few thoughts...
First off, get a private pilot license (PPL) and go fly around for fun a little bit to see how you like it. If you are having a blast, get an instrument rating and if you still having fun then consider a career.
Don't go into debt, keep your day job and train on the side paying as you go. After you get your CFI, then try to teach part-time at a nearby airport(s) to build time. Since this industry is extremely volatile you never know from day-to-day what employment opportunities will exist so don't quit a good job until you absolutely have to in order to move on.
The regionals are full of five-year FO's who are making $850/month training loan payments on a $30K/year salary...not a great way to spend your best years. Don't go into debt.