I was really lucky at my airline, they were happy if you knew the flows but were not anal about it, their attitude (and it's pretty correct for me anyhow) was that you'd get them all in IOE; know what they (the flows) were, but if you screwed one of them up it didn't end the sim session. They were more interested in CRM, flying the airplane (sim), and thinking. The instructors were awesome, and everything was professional. A good attitude goes a loooooong way too.

Overall it was a far better experience than my first regional where I had the sim partner from hell who sat there when she was the PNF like a lump of coal. Not a great experience; not great instructors either.