LOL..I knew there was someone out there who was going to post this. It is an option, but you will not know if it was the right option until you have already jumped in with both feet. I think it is much harder to come crawling back begging for forgiveness than to work things out in the long run. I agree riddle vision is a fallacy but I don't think it is a factor in my case. I have a question for you!! If you thought you had met the women of your dreams would you be able to dump her just prior to graduation because of the, "I need to explore my horizons" notion?? AAAHHH....decisions...decisions. Thanks again to all for the advice!!