Thank you everyone for good advice and confirming what I was expecting.

The case is that me and my wife got married in December in PA. I'm from Norway and we where planing on having a wedding ceremony there as well for the family and friends that could not make it to PA.

The reason we are moving to PHL is that my wife's family lives in Chester County - so we would like to be closer to them. It is not an option to move anywhere else.

I am applying to other airlines then just those with a PHL base since I cant know for sure if I would get hired by AirWis, Republic etc. I would love to be picky, but I honestly just want a job ASAP. Things are not very stable at my flightschool now, my boss has resigned etc. And it gets to a point when you work as a instructor when you've just had enough. I'm not quite there, I still enjoy the flying part - it's just the frustration with some of the 18 year old students that don't give a $h|t - and I am ready to move on to something bigger and hopefully better. I know it is going to be hard work at the regionals and take a toll on us, but I've worked many a 90 hour weeks with 18 hour shifts several days in a row waiting tables without breaks for a long time before.... And I've mentally prepared myself that it is not going to be easy.

I've done lots of thinking today - and our future is more important than a party. We can always have that ceremony. Talked to my parents who are hosting it, and they agree as well. The solution is to move the ceremony to next year....