If you bring your girl she needs to understand this year long program is like collage on steroids. Your first priority is UPT. You can't afford to screw it up. My bet advise is to study Sunday afternoon thru Thursday Night. On Friday go to the Officers club, or someplace you can let your hair down. Spend all day Saturday and Sunday morning with the family and then start the hit the books again. Repeat week after week until you receive those silver wings.