We'll need a photo of the girlfriend to assist you further.........

Just like you, from what I've read on this forum, the road to the top of the pro pilot pyramid is difficult and long, and it may not be obtainable.

I have a non-aviation degree and have truly enjoyed just being a general aviation guy. FBO ppl and instrument on a pay as you go basis - no debt. I've done the flying club, ownership and renting thing.

Work is work, no matter what field - aviation is my escape. I enjoy introducing people to flight, flying the guys to Sawgrass for a weekend golf outing, maintaining instrument proficiency, witnessing sunsets/sunrises on my schedule. I'm also fortunate in that my work considers general aviation as a viable means of transportation - that means work subsidizes my flying within reasonable limits.

Personally, I'd rather ***** and moan about my job and escape with aviation rather than the other way around. YMMV

good luck!