You can always private message me if you have questions...I do my best respond to questions with honesty (be a little wary of the sunshine flight schools sell) and to the best of my experience.

You talk about being mature for your age, and from your posts, it seems to be so. I think the pilot group as a whole is just a little bit more mature, motivated, and courteous as compared to the "average joe." (to name a few things). You will probably fit right in.

I do highly recommend people at least consider flying as a hobby versus thinking; "oh my god! I must do this for a living!". I fell into that trap! .
It seems you are also considering that option, so good on you! I personally still enjoy the heck out of flying a Cessna 150, and owning or partnering on one is relativy cheap.

Flying is an addicton...there are many ways to feed the habit . Best regards!