Uhhh, Creech 30 min north of Las Vegas and AF(Cannon)stan in NM.
Good luck. I don't think you'll get a good tour due to the obvious security clearance stuff - but I'm sure you'll meet a lot of the pilots.
My advice wrxsteve would be to try and go do something aerobatic in a glider/decathalon/UPT - I think you'll dig it more than real life call of duty.
If you're serious about it, PM me and I can put you in touch with some of the guys that fly them.