Originally Posted by
ForeverFO
It's you, I think. I'm FO, and the fuel is out of balance. Do you want me to "touch your buttons" and fix it, or have you do it since they're your buttons?
Most guys I know would rather not be woken up and told to please balance the fuel. They just want it to happen.

I'm talking about in a normal scenario. It can really add to confusion when people start reaching. If someone is "not available" at the time, then it's obvious what you should do.