Funny, women have always made me want to stay IN bed. . .

If you have not done it already (and my guess is you haven't) spend many hours searching and reading this forum. There is not one simple answer to your question, but there is mucho knowledge to be had just by reading. Good luck to you, but it takes much more than desire to be the best in this industry. You also need lots of experience in the left (or front) seat of something turbine powered.

My advice to you is to fly as much as possible, and start looking for some prettier gals to hang out with. . . .