Txntchr,
You're going to get flamed for your post. I'll be kind and suggest that you go read the 530+ pages that precede your post. 99.9% of your questions will be answered by sitting down with a pot of coffee, a good meal, a lot of quiet time, and a ton of patience.
When you've made it through all the pages/posts and THEN you still have a question....well, then you'll understand.