The three most important things in an airline pilot's life are :

1. SENIORITY
2. SENIORITY
3. SENIORITY

Just remember that ever day that goes by and someone else is hired, is another number you're BEHIND for the rest of your career. Only ONE number can cost you a lot of money over the longrun. I think you've made your decision (should be a joint one since you'll BOTH have to live with it), so go with it and don't look back. Hope to see your husband on line soon!