Most often quoted by those who don't know enough, and have to rely on who they know.

Not to point fingers, but it's entirely untrue.

I've never had a job based on knowing someone there, or using a recommendation to get in. I've had some offer to give them, but I've never used one and never been hired based on one.

Networking is better used for exploring avenues and gaining information and insight; I've never been a fan of those who get jobs based on who they know.