The key card thing really isn't a big deal. I've had a lot of captains and even flight attendants fill it out! I get a little annoyed every time a captain says "you call the hotel yet?" use your own damn phone, I have a walk around to do never mind cleaning up the cockpit and packing up.
The real lack of respect lately has been when I try to give the captain a piece of information that will save a step or make his life easier but get ignored and then it takes twice as long or worse yet ****es off a controller.