I insisted in mediation that I have my son all of my scheduled days off up to 15. If over 15 days off, I choose the 15. I must present her my schedule by the 17th at 1800 via text, email or hard copy. I also insisted that he attend school based on my residence. That was intended to keep her from moving the far extremes of our county. While we have joint custody, I agreed to pay the maximum child support $1500/month, cover insurance, and control his college fund. Sounds like you are already divorced, so it may be harder to go back and change it. I'd heard too many horror stories of guys not seeing their children other than 4-5 days per month due to ridiculous visitation situations. In our state (Texas) the standard is every 1st, 3rd and if there is 5th weekend and every Thursday. That was unacceptable to me as a junior in category commuter. When the ex agreed in mediation to this, I relented on some of the economic issues we faced vs chancing little interaction with my son. Good luck