Nerd, sounds like you got a fair deal and your ex was at least somewhat reasonable. I have been somewhat railroaded by a biased, ignorant system, and am trying to better define my custody. That's why I'm looking for actual documentation of court orders...so I can PROVE what you say you got is "normal" for pilots. I can "insist" all I want to the judge...just like I can to the company CEO. If you have actual language (personal ID removed), it would help.

NV does define joint custody as a minimum of 40% (60 max for her), so I'm not really changing anything, just "insisting" I get at least the minimum.