I am in the same boat as you right now. A-10, F-16, C-130 or KC-135. As much as I love flying the A-10, there are no units that are with in driving distance of where my family wants to live. I know I'm going to be gone a lot with the airlines so I don't want to double commute. I think we are going to make the decision to live where we want to and I'm going to stop flying single seat aircraft. I know I will miss the mission but my family and QOL is much more important to me. You need to think about whats more important for you.