Originally Posted by
John Doe
Losing someone or something you love or care deeply about is very painful. You may experience all kinds of difficult emotions and it may feel like the pain and sadness you're experiencing will never let up. These are normal reactions to a significant loss. Some show "anger".
This is very true. One's emotions run the gamut from denial to sadness to anger and finally acceptance. I only hope and pray none of you have to go through this as it's one of the most painful processes in your life. After the Colgan crash where I lost several coworkers (and friends) my emotions were so raw, it made me physically ill for several days, even though I am normally a very physically and mentally strong person. Please don't be afraid or too macho to ignore your emotions and accept the help your employer offers to deal with a tragic event such as this. It really does help in the healing process.