Thanks for the replies and keep them going please. To answer Rickair, I can't justify moving for a job I'm not keeping. My family is established and part of the reason I'm getting out is for them to have a stable life. Different story if hired at a major but even then I think I'm looking at a double commute for two years no matter how I slice it.
So I submitted my apps last night and this morning had buyers remorse and tried to hold them back for another few weeks. I couldn't figure out how to do that. This morning got a call from EJ for an interview. So now I've got some real thinking to do.