I could care less how you guys fly, do what you want. Personally I will manage to work 85 days this year and make $200,000 in the right seat. I'm not screwing anyone or preventing anyone from upgrading. I enjoy my family, spend the vast majority of my time at home and enjoy life.
I don't care what anyone else here does, that's the secret. Stop worrying so much about what everyone else is doing, you will live longer.