As a DCI Captain with over 10k hours PIC. A masters degree along with being a check airman and sim instructor background, quit your crying and step in line for a chance to be interviewed. Being a military pilot only gives you veteran status, not some kind of "ace, super-duper special pilot". In fact your mission as a military pilot gives you a disadvantage simply because of what your missions were compared to my missions.
Be patient my friends, your time will come.