I agree with MikeF16, keep it at the "bro level".

One the other side of it, I went to All ATP in Jacksonville, FL. Absolute terrible experience with the DE they use. Complete ball buster. I really think he wanted to fail me. He continued to mess with me while flying trying to get me off altitude and distract me from flying. I don't know if he would have failed me but it sure seemed like it. I did the 2 day program but I had a couple hundred of hours as a MEI in the seminole prior to the military so I think that may have helped.

BL: don't go to all ATP in Jacksonville. The DE's last name is Strange (go figure). I'd stay away from him at all cost. Good luck.