Another note -

I was on a trip, and over drinks my FO told me he'd thought about going to Skywest to be closer to his family (on the West coast). I said "I'd pull the trigger and go - be close to your family - and ease or eliminate your commute!"

He stuck it out for a few more months and then made the jump as furlough notices were coming through for his current company. After putting in a few years with SKW he's now flying the A320 for Virgin.

Personally, i'd keep our eyes on the prize and find the best way to get their that works for you and your family.