Did some VA checking today and see funding fee is 1.25 for active duty with 10% down plus in most cases a 1% origination fee. Problem still remains that my written job offers don't have date of employment and expected salary. Also seemed like VA arm loans are not that prevalent. The ones I am working with only offer fixed rate quotes on line.
My conditional approval needs a letter from my commander for employment verification and proof of move. Should be able to work that.