Loosely said; I don't make HARD plans, but yes: if they don't call me(which I normally know by 9AM) it's a day at the pool with the kiddies, time spent at the driving range with the wife, day of yard work, shopping etc. I'd say that's a day off.
As far as "off the wall" goes. I say things that are pretty normal. Maybe your "normal" comes from playing on your ipad all day or watching the lord of the rings saga. Maybe it is YOU that thinks "off the wall". I've taken too much of your time; time rather spent, I'm sure, facebooking your "friends" or posting of how great you are and your EVERY whereabouts.