I think it funny that APA is somehow now the big boogyman when they are really so tenderfooted in tiptoeing around any potential lawsuit.
Red/Blue - East/West: everybody has their expectations of being king of the dung hill...
So whatever happened to acceptance? Or are your expectations just going to get dashed into long-term resentments and you poison yourself with bitterness forever?
Hey, I go to work, they pay me well, and I get to do amazing things and help my family.
Relax. It's all going to happen and it's going to take years to sort it all out.