Originally Posted by
TheManager
Wow. From of all people you Alfa? Really!?! Simply astounding to me with all things considered.
In Los Angeles, there was a fantastic gentleman and aviator who served us all as a check airman. Great pilot and an even better teacher.
I had the pleasure of flying with him on the 727 and the 767. Glad I did. It was an honor.
During the throes of bankruptcy, he sadly committed suicide. A wife and kids lost a husband, best friend, and father. Forever.
It was said by those with intimate knowledge of the details that the financial strain of bankruptcy played a major role in this tragedy.
I don't think he probably saw things as "losing a little money" as you say, particularly since he was close to retirement.
It might be best to Shut the Phuque Up on this, Alfa. It's up to you, but knowing your ego, I'm not betting on it.
I am sorry for his family's loss. I also faced a loss recently and it is very difficult to carry on. I had to make a conscious choice to get up and move on. I still have two children left and a wife and the rest of my family and I could not wallow in my self pity for my loss. Trust me it is not easy but that is what you have to do. Mr. DALM88Driver lost money, that is all. Get over it, pick yourself off and move forward. Or wallow in self pity until it drags you into a pit, I guess that is a choice also.
I went through the same strains as everyone else in bankruptcy. I know how difficult it was. In the same vein, facing deep loss gave me a greater appreciation about what is valuable and what is not. Money is just money. You can either replace it or do without it. I am sure that you feel bad about your friend, trust me I feel my loss every single day.