I told my wife before we were married that she was taking a vow of poverty and loneliness. She still agreed.
Yeah, she loves me a lot.
I'm still in the CFI career phase right now (7 am to at least 8 pm, five-six days per week), so we make sure to take at least one full day a week for each other and always use holidays, time off, etc. for something we can do together. Face to face time is just hard to get. Have to make the most of it.