Originally Posted by scambo1

If you choose to commute, you have to acquire a commuter mindset which is an active choice to not stress over any commute. If you're tired, get a hotel, if you are unable to commute let it roll off your back, go in early, plan to lose the rest of the day and maybe the morning after your trip, etc. Even if it means missing events in the family. This might be something you should discuss clearly and thoroughly with your family.