Originally Posted by Ftrooppilot

Thousands of young professional career minded military personnel with famlies, sometimes both parents in the military, are (by your definition) irresponsible, selfish, pass responsibility, and should be humiliated. I think not !!!!!

I spent a career in the military. My wife was a military RN. We have considerable pride in our professions and have never felt "humiliated."

Individuals and families in ALL PROFESSIONS make decisions based on a balance of priorities, ethics and responsibilities. Your choices are right for you but do not apply to all.