I will agree that it is not common. As I said, when I look at all the flights and all the crews I have had since being here, there is only one or two. I would probably be in that same category of not taking BS from anybody if you asked those that know me. But also, I didn't report this Captain because it was when I was newer and I didn't want to rock the boat. I feel bad because he may have been doing the same with others and I stood by silently. Hindsight is always 20/20 but eventually he got what was coming to him and is no longer here.

If she said this happened to her, my first inclination is to believe her. Why would she come back for more? Because she wants to fly planes and shouldn't have to worry about the other **** that comes with it. SayAlt gave some very good advice on the other thread for both sides. All I am asking is that we don't immediately jump to conclusions for either side of the fence, but try to understand what experiences the other person has had to make them feel this way.