rickair said it best. Find yourself a proffesional girl. I have had little luck with the girls whose expectaions are to find some man to take care of them, but I have dated a doctor, a publisher, and a restraunteur and each of them have been quite fine with my being gone because each of them had their own lives. Also, they don't expect to be taken care of, so it doesn't require extra income to date. Pilots make enough money to take care of themselves, the problem comes if you have any dependants. As for an actual second job, I don't have one, but I'm making about 900 a month with debt and seem to get by, so if you are single with no kids, you should do fine. I don't make enough to take a girl out, but I'm quite alright with a girl taking me out. It's fun being a boy toy.