Thank you for that Kumbya moment.
(insert puke emoji here)
30 years ago a buddy of mine got hired at TWA and voiced similar commentary. He couldn't understand the animosity and acrimony that the pilots held. 30 years in the industry later, he fully understands.
Don't confuse interweb complaining with how people operate in real life. But do comprehend that bad attitudes aren't created in a vacuum. Once burned, twice shy comes to mind.
Welcome to the New U. I hope that 30 years from now you understand, or things have improved so dramatically that you don't.