re·al·i·ty
rēˈalədē/
noun
noun: reality
1. the world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them.
"he refuses to face reality"


ne·go·ti·ate
nəˈɡōSHēˌāt/
verb
verb: negotiate; 3rd person present: negotiates; past tense: negotiated; past participle: negotiated; gerund or present participle: negotiating

1. try to reach an agreement or compromise by discussion with others.
"his government's willingness to negotiate"
synonyms: discuss terms, talk, consult, parley, confer, debate; More
compromise;
mediate, intercede, arbitrate, moderate, conciliate;
bargain, haggle
"she refused to negotiate