I agree with savage, you don't own anything. To top that off you're not a controller, you can't control anything other than what you do with your airplane in the confines of what ATC gives you unless it's not safe. Just Go-Around, it's really not a big deal, that's why you do one every PC. It is completely unsafe of you to give instructions the only safe thing for you to do is go-around. What if the controller ordered you to do something against your SOP, and wouldn't accept anything less? How would you feel? Does that regulation apply to non-towered airports and towered airports? I'm under the assumption that ATC determines priority while controlling, just a thought.